I asked ChatGPT to ask me questions about my business part 3.
In boudoir photography, what role does the photographer play in creating a comfortable and empowering environment for the client?
Short Answer: THE role.
Long Answer:
In the world of boudoir photography, the photographer isn't just the person behind the camera; they're the architect of an experience that can be transformative and empowering.
I have had so many women come to my studio and tell me horror stories of other photographers who a) did not treat them well b) had no idea what they were doing and c) photographed the client bodies to the photographers preference and not the other way around.
This is a goddamn travesty.
Boudoir photography is a powerful tool when used right and taken seriously.
Used incorrectly, it can be devastating and create further setbacks.
Many of my clients come to me suffering from severe mental health battles, experiences of abuse and violence, self-harm struggles, trauma survivors, loss, and even disorders like Lupus.
If you learn one thing from me, let it be this: boudoir photography is about more than just capturing sexy photos. It's about reclamation and healing. It's about rewriting narratives and embracing one's own body.
When I mentor other photographers, I always tell them that the experience that you give your clients has the power to be a profound change in their lives. That's not something to take lightly.
Comfort is Key: I make it a point to prioritize your comfort. No adjustments, no touches without your explicit permission. Your body, your boundaries – always respected.
Creating a Safe Space: I ask about trauma responses upfront. Your safety is paramount, and understanding your comfort zones is non-negotiable.
A Supportive Presence: Your journey is unique, and I'm here to listen and support you without judgment or gossip. Whatever you're dealing with, your boudoir photographer should be a pillar of encouragement.
Photographing the Real You: I don't believe in "flattering" or the restrictive "male gaze." Your favorite and least favorite parts of your body guide my lens. Tummies, cellulite, or scars – everything is worthy of being documented.
When I mentor other photographers, I emphasize the profound impact their approach can have on clients' lives. This isn't just a photo session; it's a journey of reclamation, healing, and celebration. So, babe, when you choose a boudoir photographer, demand more than just pretty pictures – demand an experience that uplifts, empowers, and celebrates YOU.
